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CosmiTec's Love Letter, Issue #012 -- Solving Incompatibility Issues
November 21, 2005

It's almost a year since we launched our free monthly Love Letter and the number of subscribers is steadily increasing. Thank you all.

In this Love Letter we end our series about the findings of Marlis Moritz (March 2003) and the behavioral scientists Kop and Heuts about the choice of marriage partners and the month of birth.

In the next part of our series about (in)compatibility issues in relationships, we'll discuss some powerful methods to solve incompatibility issues through astrology.

Happy Birthday Sagittarius!

Luc De Jaeger

Work in progress (coming in one of our next issues):

  • love marriages
  • arranged marriages
  • love degrees
  • fertility and Moon phase returns - latest research
  • happily married women: astrological indications

If you have any further suggestions or ideas to incorporate in one of the future issues of our Love Letter, please, let us know!

In this Issue

Our regular features
  1. The Love Forecasts for the Month
  2. Love Quotes of the month
  3. What's new on our web site?

Our occasional features

  1. Whom are you married/attracted to - December Births
  2. Attraction versus Compatibility -- Part 5 - Solving Incompatibility Issues I

Love Forecasts for December 2005

In the monthly love horoscopes of December 2005 Mercury turns direct on December 4. Be ready for some enjoyable news, letters, documents or presents as stationing Mercury also sextiles Venus.

This configuration will affect you directly if you are born around November 18 or January 16 and will last till December 9.

Fortunately, Mars will turn direct on December 10. Clearly, retrograde Mars in Taurus, the sign of material goods, pointed to a lot of fiery actions (and fire-raising) lately (think of the Paris riots and the many fire-raising of cars and other material goods throughout Europe).

Retrograde Mars brought frustration all along!

Saturn currently transits Leo, the sign ruling France! In mundane astrology, Saturn in a sign always shows where on Earth, in which country or what cities problems do arise! When Saturn will enter Virgo in September 2007, expect problems in Turkey, Switzerland, Greece, Croatia, West India... for the next two years.

From now on, your actions are directed to tangible goods (Taurus), increasing your income and consolidating your projects. Your plans will slowly lift off.

Proceed cautiously but persistently to get what you want. Mars in sensual Taurus loves "good food." Seduce your lover with food and a romantic candle light dinner.

Mercury, the messenger, enters Sagittarius around December 12 bringing favorable news, letters or a call from "abroad" or from your family or in-laws. The news may open a door for you.

Around December 16 the Sun conjoins Pluto (right on the Fixed Star Lesath) and Venus enters Aquarius on the same day in the monthly love horoscopes.

For some of you this configuration will be enlightening, bringing new discoveries, unexpected gain and the uncovering of (a secret) love, for others, sudden surprising news and discoveries may turn you into a rage and disrupt your love life...

Between December 19 and December 23 Venus slows down, ready to station and turn retrograde around December 24.

We expect a lot of relationship breakups and love-affairs ending during this period and lovers returning to their former mate. Venus is too fickle during this station at the first degrees of disruptive Aquarius. Be in for some surprises. Love is not predictable and stable now. Don't marry now and don't pop the question...

Wait till Venus turns direct again after February 3, 2006.

Don't commit yourself in love affairs and keep your head cool. Think twice...

On Christmas day a lot of people will leave their home to feast somewhere else (this is what the Mercury-Neptune sextile at 15° in a sign tells us).

There is a lot of traffic and conversations of hope going around then! More than usual anyway.

New Year's Eve may be cold and/or very accident prone (there is a New Moon and the Moon is at maximum Southern declination so we may also expect snow at night). Be careful, vigilent and keep it safe!

We would like to see you again in 2006 in good health and good spirits!

Love Quotes of the month

Love's a disease. But curable
-- Rose Macaulay --

Most gentlemen don't like love. They just like to kick it around
-- Cole Porter --

Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another
-- H. L. Mencken --

It's not the men in my life that counts, it's the life in my men
-- Mae West --

Home is heaven and orgies are vile, but you need an orgy, once in a while
-- Ogden Nash --

When once a woman has given you her heart, you can never get rid of the rest of her body
-- John Vanbrugh --

What's new on our Web site?

This month we have the following updates to report:

Whom are you married/attracted to - December Births

Last month, we discussed some findings by Marlis Moritz (March 2003) and the behavioral scientists Kop and Heuts about the choice of marriage partners and the month of birth. We printed their results for people born in November.

Let's take a look now at what their findings reveal about December births:

Females born in December most preferred males born in August, they least preferred males born in May.

Males born in December most preferred females born in May. They least preferred females born in July.

So far the results of the findings by the behavioral scientists Kop and Heuts and Marlis Moritz. This also ends this series as we ,ow have covered the 12 months.

Attraction versus Compatibility -- Part 5 - Solving Incompatibility Issues I

Last month we discussed the topic of attraction that can be found when delineating some specific planetary aspects.

This time we'll try to solve some major incompatibility issues.

It would be unrealistic to think or expect that a couple should or even MUST be compatible on all levels (mental, physical, sexual, ...). When there is basic compatibility, all minor incompatibilities can be solved by some techniques, hints and tips.

There are enough non-astrology related methods and techniques to learn from. In our opinion, the most reliable and proven ones are:

  • Gary Craig's EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) . The feedback is nothing short of amazing...

  • Brandon Bays' eye-opening way to fix emotional challenges on the cellular level! Brandon pioneered a unique inner-directed process called "The Journey", which helps people to experience profound emotional and physical healing at a cellular level.

    "The Journey" is now recognized internationally as one of the most powerful healing processes available, accessing the body's own healing wisdom at the deepest level of the soul.

    If trauma and negative emotions are not resolved, they become physically stored as a cellular memory, preventing those cells involved from playing their part in the constant chemical communication taking place within the body.

  • Wallace Wattles' way to bring wealth and happiness by showing gratitude, gratitude and more gratitude (among other things)

  • Fighting for Your Marriage by by Markman, Stanley and Blumberg which is a HIGHLY valuable source of information for positively handling disagreements between you and your partner

  • Kevin Burk's Relationship Handbook

Forementioned methods have one thing in common: they learn to fix emotional challenges by bringing the right mind-set. Love and happiness are in the Mind (and it's way beyond "Mind over Matter", it's "Spirit over Mind")!

You attract what you think!

Also, don't waste your time and energy by trying to change your lover. Change your own mind-set and state of mind with the help of the forementioned listed and extremely important and helpful information.

One of the other lessons to learn: never ever send someone negative thoughts or energy (it will be returned to you) and absolutely stay or break away from someone you don't really and fully blend harmoniously if the above mentioned tips don't work.

When there is no basic compatibility and you are irresistible attracted to somebody, you're in for some big emotional trouble and turmoil, the more so when you are already married with someone you're completely incompatible with...

The saddest and most unhappy people are not those who never married, but those who married the wrong person.

Please, note that (in)compatibility and attraction are not the same.

Fortunately, there is a solution to every problem. Major issues often demand radical solutions.

Once again, aside from astrology, understand that your own state of mind is of supreme importance.

There are two most important (astrology-related) solutions that we would like you to know better:

  • move or relocate to your best places for love
  • change your name

Let us explain what it's all about, starting with relocation.

Astrology is very involved with time and space, the when and the where.

Without your place of birth and your time of birth, no horoscopes can be drawn. If you change your time or place of birth, your horoscope will change too, highlighting new aspects, configurations etc.

The exact time and place of birth materialize specific energies that will build your body and soul, energies that are favorable or unfavorable for some life events (love, money, self-esteem, children, happiness, wealth, health or sickness,...) evolving out of this momentum.

By quiting your place of birth, your environment changes too. Even if the planets at birth do not change their position in a sign, they will change houses.

That's why in astrology, the houses symbolize the external circumstances and your environment (which is changeable), while the planets in the signs point to your inner potential, your character (which is more fixed).

While changing places and your environment, the interaction with your environment will change too. When you change your place of residence, the planets change houses and highlight other life experiences.

However, as it goes, planets have some affinities with some specific houses (the same way as planets feel good in some signs and bad in other signs).

If you relocate to a place so that a specific planet is removed from a certain harmful house, you can try to find the house that suits the planet best.

Always relocate your planets to better houses.

This way, relocating can be a wonderful way of changing the way external circumstances influence your life. By the interaction of the changing environment with your static inner self, you will also start to bring other characteristics of the planets in the signs (your inner self) into the limelight.

Your inner self will experience inner growth and transformation and your (love) life will improve.

When your relationship potential is low at your hometown, change all that by relocating to a place where your relationship planets move to more favorable houses, bringing more auspicious relationship energies to the foreground.

Our "Where to Find Love?" page serves as a very good example and discusses how to find the direction your love lines go and where love is around the corner for you.

Follow your love lines and search for a city that attracts you most in that area or country. Your relocation chart (i.e. your natal chart cast for THAT new place instead of your place of birth) will describe whether or not you will experience a story of love. If not, check another place in that area or country and cast another relocation chart.

Some hot TIPS:

  • Try to get the Sun or Jupiter in your first relocated house and try to improve your 5th and/or 7th house too (depending on the planetary aspects)
  • Try to relocate the planets in their exalted houses for maximum benefit, depending on what your goal is or what you want from that relocated position:
    • the Sun in the 1st house, eventually in the 5th or 9th house (not in the 7th house)
    • the Moon in the 2nd house
    • Mercury in the 6th house
    • Venus in the 12th house, eventually in the 7th house
    • Mars in the 10th house
    • Jupiter in the 4th house (eventually in the 1st house)
    • Saturn in the 7th house

There will certainly be a place that fits best to improve your love life.

However, notice that when you move to another place, other life events may "deteriorate" more or less because, when some planets change for better local positions (houses), other planets may switch to less favorable houses!

Try to find balance and search for the best possible location according to what you find primordial in your life.

If we can be of any help, let us know.

Next month more about the relationship between astrology and changing your name to improve your love life.

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Luc De Jaeger
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