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CosmiTec's Love Letter, Issue #061 -- Lilith And Your Love Life
December 21, 2009

Never before did we get so many positive feedback about an article published in our Love Letter than about our One Way Love article, printed in our previous Love Letter. Thank you all for the valuable input, inspiration and additional questions and interesting remarks. We will expand this article and incorporate the remarks when we publish it on our web site.

It's odd to find so many people passing away these weeks and days in tragic circumstances. In most instances the transiting Saturn-Pluto square is part of the configuration aspecting personal points in the natives' natal charts. We're curious what else will come because this square lasts till mid 2010!

We're still busy analyzing and delineating the 2010 forecasts for the 12 zodiac signs. Unfortunately, we will not be able to publish them on our web site before the end of the year. It's really too time-consuming. Expect the predictions to be online in January 2010.

Try to enjoy the Holidays with lots of love!
Luc De Jaeger

Work in progress (coming in one of our next issues):

  • love degrees
  • fertility and Moon phase returns - latest research
  • happily married women: astrological indications

If you have any further suggestions or ideas to incorporate in one of the future issues of our Love Letter, please, click here to let us know!

Table of Contents

Our regular features
  1. The Love Forecasts for the Month
  2. Love Quotes of the month
  3. What's new on our web site?

Our occasional features

  1. Lilith And Your Love Life

Love Forecasts for January 2010

Around January 2 and 3, you may enjoy artistic and/or romantic moments. This is the more so if you are born around December 31-January 1, March 30-31, July 1-2 or October 3-4. Make a trip to some photographic scenery or beautiful places or listen to some favorite music with your beloved ones.

The Sun and Mercury conjoin at 14° Capricorn around January 4 while Mercury conjoins Venus around January 5 at 13° Capricorn. Clearly, if you are born around January 4-5, April 3-4, July 5-6 or October 7-8 these days bring presents, love letters, or just enjoyable (love) talks. Say what's on your mind and in your heart. Express your heart's desires.

The Sun and Venus go together at 21° Capricorn around January 11 and will conjoin the Moon's North Node the same day. When the Sun, Venus and the Moon's Node blend, expect real LOVE! This configuration will especially affect you if you are born around January 11-12, April 11-12, May 12, July 14, September 14 or October 14-15.

If it's your birthday now, this trio is in your solar return chart for the next (solar return) year and will mark a very prosperous year re love. Expect love, enjoyable moments, eventually a proposal and/or marriage.
To a lesser extent this configuration will also affect you if you are born around February 10, March 12, June 12, August 14, November 13-14 or December 13-14. You too may enjoy cozy moments, parties, meetings etc. Do enjoy!Around January 13, the tide is slowly starting to turn when Saturn stations to turn retrograde at 4° Libra. Something is bothering you and you are reluctant to take decisions. You're withholding... and need time. You tend to think things over.

It's not really a time for commitment now but you are really serious AND realistic about your relationship(s). You tend to define your relationship(s) and in case you're still unsure or confused, things will become clear.

Because Saturn also relates to your boss, career, reputation, father, older people or authority figures, you tend to re-evaluate them too. You may re-consider and set new goals.

Also, you tend to become more disciplined during Saturn's retrogression. You may tend to switch careers too.

Around January 15, a Solar Eclipse at 25° Capricorn takes place, just when Mercury stations and turns direct again at 5° Capricorn. Yes, these configurations mark important days for sure.

First, there is the tight conjunction of the Solar Eclipse with Venus, then there is Mercury (the messenger and decision-maker) turning direct and lastly, there are some very favorable (exact) midpoints working out. You may tie the knot (even when this involves a separation or divorce; there awaits a change for the better). Because the Solar Eclipse sextiles Uranus of sudden events, you may meet your future lover or buddy too (keep an eye on the coming six months). This Solar Eclipse will bring advancements in relationships and new relationships to grow.

If you are born around January 16-17, April 16, July 19 or October 20 you will enjoy highly favorable and auspicious moments full of love, bliss and sudden windfalls. Expect love, childbirth, material gain etc. depending on you horoscope and personal situation.

Around January 18, the stellar influences start to change course and will bring a shift that will be felt. Jupiter enters Pisces and Venus enters Aquarius. Both planets are now at 0° in a sign and break with the past. The ingress of both planets may (temporarily) bring some more challenging times for some though. For others, it can denote more freedom-loving aspirations and a deeper interest in groups and ideals. There may be an increased interest in social concerns rather than in individual ones. Anyway, Venus and Jupiter (fortuna major and fortuna minor) changing signs, will be felt and it will bring new hope and some windfalls. Also, expect a new love to blossom.

However, if you're a pregnant woman beware of miscarriages, the more so if you are born around January 19-20, February 3, April 19-20, May 5, July 22, August 7, October 23 or November 7.

The Sun enters Aquarius around January 20, a day that is marked by infidelity and/or the love for the home. This is especially true if you are born around April 22-23, July 25, October 25-26 or January 22. Now that both the Sun and Venus are in airy Aquarius, expect some more flirtatious behaviour. Love is in the air...

Venus at 9° Aquarius opposes Mars at 9° Leo around January 27. Some sexual tension is noticeable. However, this aspect will not bring sex to anyone ;-). There are opposing views between a man and a woman, disputes or arguments coming for some of you.

Around January 29, the Sun at 9° Aquarius opposes Mars at 9° Leo denoting yet more arguments and conflicts (or physical injuries and illness).

These configurations are setting the stage for the upcoming Saturn-Pluto square that will, for another time, be exact at 4° Libra around January 31. We recall that this square is a most difficult one that will last till mid 2010 and will bring lots of hardship, deaths, losses and, especially, emotional shocks.

To a lesser extent this configuration will also affect you if you are born around February 10, March 12, June 12, August 14, November 13-14 or December 13-14. You too may enjoy cozy moments, parties, meetings etc. Do enjoy!

Love Quotes of the Month

One man's mate is another man's passion
-- Eugene Healy --

What is lovely never dies, but passes into other loveliness
-- Thomas Bailey Aldrich --

Sex on the brain is the wrong place to have it
-- Malcolm Muggeridge --

A new love drives out the old
-- French proverb --

The song is ended, but the melody lingers on
-- Irving Berlin --

Faults are thick where love is thin
-- John Howell --

What comes from the heart, goes to the heart
-- Samuel Taylor Coleridge --

Aside from theology and sex there is really nothing to talk about
-- Harold Laski --

What's New on Our Web Site?

We updated our:
  • Testimonial page with additional unsolicited testimonials and revised the introductory text to comply with the new Federal Trade Commission (FTC) rules re endorsements and testimonials. Though the FTC rules are not really applicable to our web site (the rules only apply to American web sites), we found the idea behind the changes important enough to follow them as good as possible.

    The changes are related to the FTC’s Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising, which address endorsements by consumers, experts, organizations, and celebrities, as well as the disclosure of important connections between advertisers and endorsers.

    Under the revised Guides, advertisements that feature a consumer and convey his or her experience with a product or service as typical when that is not the case will be required to clearly disclose the results that consumers can generally expect. The revised rules are there to protect the American Consumers, prevent fraudulent, deceptive, and unfair business practices and to provide information to help spot, stop, and avoid them.

    In practice, web sites that print testimonials and endorsements will have to disclose if they earn something for it (material profits). It's all about credibility of the web sites and the companies that publish testimonials or endorsements.
  • we added an informational external link on our Infertility treatment page about natural ways to increase fertility
  • Vedic sex horoscopes page and revised the Nakshatras
  • Moon phase astrology page on which you may now find our "Forecasting with the Moon phases" e-book in pdf-format to download for free. It's a very technically written book for advanced astrologers and students of astrology.

Lilith And Your Love Life

In this article we will delve deeper into the meaning of an uncommon point called Lilith, also named the "Dark Moon" or the "Black Moon", the empty focal point of the Moon’s orbit around the earth, which is also the apogee of the Moon’s orbit. So, this is NOT about the Asteroid Lilith (#1181), which is a very different body with very different meanings!

The very confusing names Lilith, Dark Moon and Black Moon make it difficult to find what astrologers are talking about when writing about this topic.

The Moon travels along an elliptical path around the Earth and one focal point is occupied by the Earth, the other focal point is called Lilith.

Just as there is a "mean" and a "true" Lunar Node, so there is a "mean" and a "true" ellipse and a "mean" and a "true" Lilith.

Unlike in French speaking countries, in the English speaking countries, Lilith is still little known. Many books about Lilith have been written in French, some in German and, lately, there are some publications (or translations) in English too.

Moreover, the Lilith talked about in the English speaking community, most often refers to a body/satellite traveling around the Moon which is NOT what we are talking about here. To be perfectly clear, we're talking about the mean apogee of the Moon (it's a sensitive point) in this article, not about a body.

There has not been a lot of ('scientific') studies so that its meaning is still unclear.

Because of the confusion related to what point or body one is talking about when mentioning Lilith and because of the lack of serious reserach, the interpretations found in books, articles and on the internet must be taken with huge grains of salt. Please, keep this in mind when trying to find the interprettaions of this point!

Though we incorporate the mean apogee of the Moon in all our research studies, we have not been able to pinpoint the very essence of this sensitive point yet.

What we can tell for sure though is that its meaning in the natal charts differs substantially from the transiting or progressed meaning. The same holds true for Lilith in chart comparisons.

Seldom have we found the interpretations of Lilith described in lots of astrological books consistent or valuable. Most significations are philosophical, unpractical, esoteric and too spiritual to understand properly.

As far as we can tell from our own conducted research so far, Lilith in synastry relates to "fascination."

Because Lilith has not yet shown to be extremely important in chart comparison, we recommend you don't rely too much on the aspects it receives from another person. Don't obsess about it and don't jump to conclusions too soon when some inter-aspects are exact. In synastry, there are waaaayy more important and powerful things to consider than the position of Lilith! For the moment, you may even disregard it (except when you want to conduct your own research of course). When we have more (conclusive) information available about Lilith in synastry, we will let you know in a future Love Letter.

BR Click here to download free Ephemerides of Lilith through the web site of Astrodienst. The positions of Lilith can be found in the last columns but one (just before Chiron's positions).

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