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Sexual Compatibility And Incompatibility Between Two People

One of the most important indications of sexual compatibility between two people is related to the Venus/Mars midpoint.

A midpoint is the point half-way between two planets or factors. It's the half-distance between two stellar bodies that can be occupied by another planet or factor but it may as well be unoccupied or not in aspect to another planet or stellar body.

So, the Venus/Mars midpoint is just the point half-way between Venus and Mars in your natal chart.

When the Venus/Mars midpoint of one person is in the same sign as the Venus/Mars midpoint of the second person, there is sexual compatibility.

Moreover, the closer both midpoints are, the higher the sexual compatibility.

When both Venus/Mars midpoints coincide or conjunct (orb 1°), there is a very very high degree of sexual compatibility.

What else makes that two -- or more...;-) -- people get sexually attracted to one another?

There are different rules that indicate an irreversible and irresistable physical (and often fatal) attraction resulting in sexual compatibility.

1. The Sun of one partner in close aspect to Mars of the other. Especially the most exact aspects and the conjunction are very, very powerful.
   
   The Sun always symbolizes the physical body, so no doubt that this Light (we may not call the Sun a planet...) is involved in this configuration.
   
   The planet Mars symbolizes our primary and instinctive physical and biological drives and urges. You get the picture?
   
   
2. Venus of one partner in close aspect to Mars of the other. Especially when Venus belongs to the female partner and Mars to the male partner, this aspect is a hot combination denoting sexual compatibility.
   
   The most exact aspects and the conjunction are very, very powerful. When Uranus or Pluto (this most compulsive planet) enhance this aspect, we get such a magnetic combination from lust at first sight, that you will not be able to resist this insatiable force.
   
   
3. Venus or Mars of one partner in close aspect to Pluto of the other. This aspect denotes insatiable, compulsive and obsessive sex needs. Here, sex is never over... Marathon sex.
   
   
4. All exact 8th Harmonic midpoints (45° dial/list) within a 1° orb in which the Sun, Venus, Mars, Uranus and/or Pluto are involved. This rule is derived from the above mentioned synastric rules.

These rules are the most powerful and irresistable ones that keep two or more bodies together (independent of the mental outlook!) and signify sexual compatibility.

However, don't worry if you both have no such a combination in your sex horoscopes.

In fact, in reality these configurations do not occur so very often and even if you have (one of) them, this will not mean that you -- ALWAYS AND FOREVER -- will get on well on a physical level.

It's true that it's very fortunate to have one of the mentioned combinations to spice up your physical and sexual well-being and they do help in matching your sexual desires.

However, even without these aspects people marry (and are very happy...), though on a sexual level, at times, there can be a mismatch.

In that case, this should not mean that you should break with your lover.

There is a marvelous and bestselling book The Sex-Starved Marriage: A Couple's Guide to Boosting Their Marriage Libido by Michele Weiner-Davis that learns how to cope with the issue of mismatched sexual desires.

But remember: Love is just MORE than sex! You don't need these aspects to really love one another!

Also know that, even with the above mentioned astrological sexual compatibility configurations, there will be moments that you will need something else or something more...

Every couple now and then needs something else or something more. It's typical of any human being!

After all, everything is cyclic with its ups and downs.

Also, you can't always pull everything out of yourself. You often need some ideas, techniques and excitement from outside, from other sources whether or not you have these sublime astrological configurations.

That's why some lovemaking tips and techniques are always helpful for any couple - with or without sexual compatibility. Indeed, creating physical well-being can often be learned by applying some techniques.

Also, of the uttermost importance is to learn the power of intimate discussions.

Communication still IS the cornerstone of any happy and satisfying love union!

Some Sex Games may do the trick!

Some individual sex techniques for every Sun Sign can be found on our individual sex horoscopes page.

We hope, they are insightful, do work and can spice up your love life.

Sometimes, some tools can be of help too, to spice upany relationship. This is not depending on your astrological aspects!

Some of you may be reluctant to try out these tools (or sex toys) because they have a bad rap. Sex toys are too often associated with pornographic material.

Do understand that this is not the case! Some couples even prefer Adult Dating Services like SexyAds (just check our dating page for more information).

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