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CosmiTec's Love Letter, Issue #012 -- Solving Incompatibility Issues
November 21, 2005
It's almost a year since we launched our free monthly Love Letter and the number of subscribers is steadily increasing. Thank you all.
In this Love Letter we end our series about the findings of Marlis Moritz (March 2003) and the behavioral scientists Kop and Heuts about the choice of marriage partners and the month of birth.
In the next part of our series about (in)compatibility issues in relationships, we'll discuss some powerful methods to solve incompatibility issues through astrology.
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Love Forecasts for December 2005In the monthly love horoscopes of December 2005 Mercury turns direct on December 4. Be ready for some enjoyable news, letters, documents or presents as stationing Mercury also sextiles Venus.
This configuration will affect you directly if you are born around November 18 or January 16 and will last till December 9.
Fortunately, Mars will turn direct on December 10. Clearly, retrograde Mars in Taurus, the sign of material goods, pointed to a lot of fiery actions (and fire-raising) lately (think of the Paris riots and the many fire-raising of cars and other material goods throughout Europe).
Retrograde Mars brought frustration all along!
From now on, your actions are directed to tangible goods (Taurus), increasing your income and consolidating your projects. Your plans will slowly lift off.
Proceed cautiously but persistently to get what you want. Mars in sensual Taurus loves "good food." Seduce your lover with food and a romantic candle light dinner.
Mercury, the messenger, enters Sagittarius around December 12 bringing favorable news, letters or a call from "abroad" or from your family or in-laws. The news may open a door for you.
Around December 16 the Sun conjoins Pluto (right on the Fixed Star Lesath) and Venus enters Aquarius on the same day in the monthly love horoscopes.
For some of you this configuration will be enlightening, bringing new discoveries, unexpected gain and the uncovering of (a secret) love, for others, sudden surprising news and discoveries may turn you into a rage and disrupt your love life...
Between December 19 and December 23 Venus slows down, ready to station and turn retrograde around December 24.
We expect a lot of relationship breakups and love-affairs ending during this period and lovers returning to their former mate. Venus is too fickle during this station at the first degrees of disruptive Aquarius. Be in for some surprises. Love is not predictable and stable now. Don't marry now and don't pop the question...
Wait till Venus turns direct again after February 3, 2006.
Don't commit yourself in love affairs and keep your head cool. Think twice...
On Christmas day a lot of people will leave their home to feast somewhere else (this is what the Mercury-Neptune sextile at 15° in a sign tells us).
There is a lot of traffic and conversations of hope going around then! More than usual anyway.
New Year's Eve may be cold and/or very accident prone (there is a New Moon and the Moon is at maximum Southern declination so we may also expect snow at night). Be careful, vigilent and keep it safe!
We would like to see you again in 2006 in good health and good spirits!
Love Quotes of the monthLove's a disease. But curable
-- Rose Macaulay --
Most gentlemen don't like love. They just like to kick it around
Love is the delusion that one woman differs from another
It's not the men in my life that counts, it's the life in my men
Home is heaven and orgies are vile, but you need an orgy, once in a while
When once a woman has given you her heart, you can never get rid of the rest of her body
What's new on our Web site?This month we have the following updates to report:
Whom are you married/attracted to - December BirthsLast month, we discussed some findings by Marlis Moritz (March 2003) and the behavioral scientists Kop and Heuts about the choice of marriage partners and the month of birth. We printed their results for people born in November.
Let's take a look now at what their findings reveal about December births:
Females born in December most preferred males born in August, they least preferred males born in May.
Males born in December most preferred females born in May. They least preferred females born in July.
So far the results of the findings by the behavioral scientists Kop and Heuts and Marlis Moritz. This also ends this series as we ,ow have covered the 12 months.
Attraction versus Compatibility -- Part 5 - Solving Incompatibility Issues ILast month we discussed the topic of attraction that can be found when delineating some specific planetary aspects.
This time we'll try to solve some major incompatibility issues.
It would be unrealistic to think or expect that a couple should or even MUST be compatible on all levels (mental, physical, sexual, ...). When there is basic compatibility, all minor incompatibilities can be solved by some techniques, hints and tips.
There are enough non-astrology related methods and techniques to learn from. In our opinion, the most reliable and proven ones are:
Forementioned methods have one thing in common: they learn to fix emotional challenges by bringing the right mind-set. Love and happiness are in the Mind (and it's way beyond "Mind over Matter", it's "Spirit over Mind")!
You attract what you think!
Also, don't waste your time and energy by trying to change your lover. Change your own mind-set and state of mind with the help of the forementioned listed and extremely important and helpful information.
One of the other lessons to learn: never ever send someone negative thoughts or energy (it will be returned to you) and absolutely stay or break away from someone you don't really and fully blend harmoniously if the above mentioned tips don't work.
When there is no basic compatibility and you are irresistible attracted to somebody, you're in for some big emotional trouble and turmoil, the more so when you are already married with someone you're completely incompatible with...
The saddest and most unhappy people are not those who never married, but those who married the wrong person.
Please, note that (in)compatibility and attraction are not the same.
Fortunately, there is a solution to every problem. Major issues often demand radical solutions.
Once again, aside from astrology, understand that your own state of mind is of supreme importance.
There are two most important (astrology-related) solutions that we would like you to know better:
Let us explain what it's all about, starting with relocation.
Astrology is very involved with time and space, the when and the where.
Without your place of birth and your time of birth, no horoscopes can be drawn. If you change your time or place of birth, your horoscope will change too, highlighting new aspects, configurations etc.
The exact time and place of birth materialize specific energies that will build your body and soul, energies that are favorable or unfavorable for some life events (love, money, self-esteem, children, happiness, wealth, health or sickness,...) evolving out of this momentum.
By quiting your place of birth, your environment changes too. Even if the planets at birth do not change their position in a sign, they will change houses.
That's why in astrology, the houses symbolize the external circumstances and your environment (which is changeable), while the planets in the signs point to your inner potential, your character (which is more fixed).
While changing places and your environment, the interaction with your environment will change too. When you change your place of residence, the planets change houses and highlight other life experiences.
However, as it goes, planets have some affinities with some specific houses (the same way as planets feel good in some signs and bad in other signs).
If you relocate to a place so that a specific planet is removed from a certain harmful house, you can try to find the house that suits the planet best.
Always relocate your planets to better houses.
This way, relocating can be a wonderful way of changing the way external circumstances influence your life. By the interaction of the changing environment with your static inner self, you will also start to bring other characteristics of the planets in the signs (your inner self) into the limelight.
Your inner self will experience inner growth and transformation and your (love) life will improve.
When your relationship potential is low at your hometown, change all that by relocating to a place where your relationship planets move to more favorable houses, bringing more auspicious relationship energies to the foreground.
Our "Where to Find Love?" page serves as a very good example and discusses how to find the direction your love lines go and where love is around the corner for you.
Follow your love lines and search for a city that attracts you most in that area or country. Your relocation chart (i.e. your natal chart cast for THAT new place instead of your place of birth) will describe whether or not you will experience a story of love. If not, check another place in that area or country and cast another relocation chart.
Some hot TIPS:
There will certainly be a place that fits best to improve your love life.
However, notice that when you move to another place, other life events may "deteriorate" more or less because, when some planets change for better local positions (houses), other planets may switch to less favorable houses!
Try to find balance and search for the best possible location according to what you find primordial in your life.
If we can be of any help, let us know.
Next month more about the relationship between astrology and changing your name to improve your love life.
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