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CosmiTec's Love Letter, Issue #131 -- Astrology and the Love Bite
October 21, 2015

In this Scorpio month of emotional attachments, turmoil and intensity, we would like to present our preliminary research results pertaining to emotionally draining and obsessive love relationships, better known, perhaps, as the 'Love Bite.'

Speaking about intensity, November 2015 may be(come) an intense month.

Not only will Neptune station, making it super powerful, but we will also experience the first of three cleansing and dissolving waning Saturn-Neptune squares that will mark the next 1-1.5 years.

You might want to (re-)read our assessment of the upcoming Saturn-Neptune square in the back-issues of our Love Letter: the introduction to Issue 122 and the featured article in Issue 120.

Be love!
Luc De Jaeger

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Table of Contents

Our regular features
  1. The Love Forecasts for the Month
  2. Love Quotes of the month
  3. What's new on our web site?

Our occasional features

  1. Astrology and the Love Bite

Love Forecasts for November 2015

(slowly hover over a paragraph with the mouse and wait a second for additional astrological information)

Click here to download the November 2015 calendar in pdf format.

In general and on a mundane level, events are likely to happen around November 7, November 14, November 21 and/or November 27-28.

During this month of November 2015, a couple of planetary configurations will affect some birthdays in particular:
  • If you are born around February 4, March 20-21, May 6, June 21-22, August 7-8, September 23-24, November 7-8 or December 22 this month may become a major powerful turning point in your life.

    Especially in the first half of the month, there are fortunate and auspicious developments, opening doors and giving new perspectives.

  • If you are born around January 6, February 19, April 5, May 21, July 7-8, August 23-24, October 9 or November 23 expect a sudden change of course and the overturning of a status quo.

    You are able to transform and show a lot of determination and focus.

    Beware of impatience and rushing too fast.

  • If you are born around January 17, March 2, April 17, June 2, July 20, September 4, October 20 or December 4 there is some agony going on.

    This month may bring some heartbreak, suffering or pain.

    Beware of accidents and/or physical injuries as well.
Let's take a look now at how the month will unfold.

The early November 1-2 days suggest agreements, working well together, nice teamwork, enjoying the company of others, socializing, feeling bliss and joy with others.

This will especially apply to you if you are born around January 28-29, March 13-14, April 28-29, June 14-15, July 31-August 1, September 16-17, Octoberv 31-November 1 or December 15-16.

Around November 2 Mercury enters investigative and penetrating Scorpio.

Documents and administration about shared resources (taxes, insurances, legacies, the partner's possessions, etc.) will mark the first weeks of this month.

There is lots of hard work to do around the same day of November 2 and you are in a very controlling mindset.

Some of you need to fight for your honor and/or life.

However, it looks like you have to face things alone.

This may especially apply to you if you are born around January 29, March 14, April 29, June 15, August 1, September 17, November 1 or December 16.

Venus and Mars conjoin around November 2-3 at 24° Virgo.

This overly spontaneous and impulsive combo struggles with boundaries.

Though this conjunction can be very sensual and erotic with strong passions, there can be a tendency to confuse 'love' with lust and mixing up romantic affairs with emotional triangles.

This is a good time for the finer details in artistic projects (painting, sculpturing,...) but it may also indicate some impulsive spending and sudden expenses.

On a mundane level, any Venus-Mars combo can be an accident-prone one.

Beware of physical injuries and be safe.

November 3 may bring separation (because of travel or a short trip for example), the need to be alone or withdraw and/or experience/envision a job change.

The separative trends continue between November 4 and 6 and it looks like you miss a beloved one.

Some of you may feel weaker and some physical discomfort or injuries cannot be ruled out.

Venus and the North Node of the Moon meet at 28° Virgo around November 7.

Usually, this conjunction indicates increased social events and gatherings.

It promotes celebrations, social occasions and socializing.

Financially speaking, this can be an auspicious aspect as well.

There can be increased income or support in some way.

Around November 8 Venus enters its own sign Libra and reinforces the socializing influences.

Though Venus is in good a position, Mars is not and may bring some turbulent events in the first half of November, especially in the days leading up to November 10 when Mars conjuncts the North Node of the Moon.

If you are born around February 4, March 21, May 5-6, June 22, August 8, September 23-24, November 7-8 or December 22-23 expect some auspicious events, (financial) windfalls, fortunate developments and major turning points between November 7-9.

The turbulent Mars-North Node conjunction around November 9-10 has the tendency to push through impulsively and aggressively.

In many cases, this conjunction marks mass accidents with lots of casualties.

There can be more arguments and disputes as well.

The November 11 New Moon period is an auspicious one presenting a series of fortunate breaks, happy feelings, good speeches, enjoyable encounters and love at first sight.

Mars enters Libra around November 12.

Both Venus and Mars are now in the air sign Libra, enhancing the (love) life of all air signs (Gemini, Libra and Aquarius) till December 5.

The focus is on finding balance and harmony, cooperating and finding diplomatic solutions.

Between November 13-15 intensity rules.

There can be passion and even irresistible attraction but also pay attention to imposing your will onto others and forceful behavior that may get out of hand (like rape).

There can be breaking news and/or messages pertaining to mass events or developments in relationships.

This may especially apply to you if you are born around February 9-10, March 26, May 11-12, June 27, August 13-14, September 29, November 13 or December 27-28.

Around November 15 a fortunate development and success awaits you if you are born around February 5, March 22, May 6-7, June 23, August 9, September 24, November 8-9 or December 23.

Thrilling and exciting events, enjoyable group activities and socializing will happen around November 15-16.

If you are born around February 11, March 28, May 13, June 29, August 15, October 1, November 15 or December 29, these exciting influences will affect you most.

Some of you may even find love.

If you are born around this day of November 15, these influences will likely last your whole (solar return) year long (counting from birthday to birthday).

Around November 17 the Sun and Mercury conjoin at 24° Scorpio.

It's a nice and enjoyable day with nice letters/messages/chats or beautiful gifts, parcels or presents.

Neptune stations at 7° Pisces around November 18 and is about to move forward again.

This can be a very confusing and cloudy day overall.

It's best to meditate or contemplate and not take any important decisions just now.

Neptune's stations are always nebulous and tricky and often bring delusion of some sort.

Mercury enters Sagittarius, the sign of its detriment around November 20.

This can be a stormy position for Mercury to be in and chances are people are in a very talkative mood now with lots going on.

Sagittarius is the zodiac sign of expansion, beliefs and foreign affairs, making that news is spreading and going viral worldwide.

New perspectives are presented as well during the entrance of Mercury in this fire sign.

Around November 20-21, Venus at 13° Libra squares Pluto at 13° Capricorn.

This waning square suggests overwhelming physical urges and an obsessive desire for 'love.'

Around November 22 the Sun also enters the mutable fire sign Sagittarius.

Your love life may face a dramatic change and your life is about to enter a whole new chapter.

This may especially apply to you if you are born between January 6-8, February 19-21, April 5-7, May 21-24, July 7-10, August 23-26, October 8-11 or November 22-25.

Venus at 16° Libra opposes Uranus at 16° Aries around November 23 resulting in thrilling and enjoyable but short-lived encounters and love at first sight.

Expect nice surprises.

However, the November 25 Full Moon period indicates a huge bummer when Mercury and Saturn conjoin at 6° Sagittarius.

At the same day, both planets square dissolving and stationing Neptune, strong in its own sign Pisces.

This Mercury, Saturn, Neptune combo is quite depressive and sad, especially so during a Full Moon period of awareness and coming out in the open.

On a mundane level, this combo represents 'black-outs' resulting in hopeless actions and the greatest difficulties to deal with mundane problems connected with supplying material needs.

Also, there can be water related issues, issues with the maritime world, drownings etc.

On a more personal level, this combo may affect health and chances are you may not feel too well just now.

A cold or flu-like symptoms may be the most common outcome.

The waning Saturn-Neptune square is one of the most important aspects of the month that will not only influence November 2015 because Neptune is stationing too, but it will influence the next 1-1.5 years profoundly as well because it will be exact for another two times next year.

In the introduction to Issue 122 and the featured article in Issue 120 (scroll down the page) we already delineated this cleansing and dissolving square.

In astrometeorology, a tight Saturn-Neptune square often coincides with (very) cold weather here and there and increased precipitation (especially because of Neptune's powerful position).

There is sadness and love's sorrow around November 28.

You still don't feel at par and the water-related issues still apply.

These rather depressing influences may especially apply to and influence you for the next couple of days if you are born around January 12-13, February 26, April 12, May 28-29, July 14-15, August 30-31, October 15-16 or November 29-30.

The Sun at 7° Sagittarius will square powerful Neptune at 7° Pisces around November 29.

Confusion still reigns as well as dissatisfaction and being absent- minded.

Around the same day of November 29-30 the Sun and blocking Saturn meet at 7° Sagittarius.

There seems to be no progress just now and your vitality is still low.

Perhaps you just need some time alone.

Do take care of your health these late November days!

Love Quotes of the Month

As soon as you cannot keep anything from a woman, you love her
-- Paul Geraldy --

The object of love is to serve, not to win
-- Woodrow Wilson --

If you would marry wisely, marry your equal
-- Ovid --

The test of a happily married, and a wise, woman is whether she can say, "I love you," far oftener than she asks, "Do you love me?"
-- Dorothy Dayton --

A man can feel his heart touched by certain women of such perfect beauty and such transcendent merit that he is satisfied with only seeing them and conversing with them
-- Jean de La Bruyere --

Love lessens woman's delicay and increases man's
-- Jean Paul Richter --

What's New on Our Web Site?

We listed aother astrology software program (Astrolog) on our Compatibility Horoscopes page.

We added an article about the (love) life of Drew Barrymore.

We added a page about the Venus Phases, marriages and divorces, an article we previously published in two parts in one of the latest issues of this Love Letter.

There were numerous (invisible) HTML4 to HTML5 code changes in our continuing effort to upgrade our whole web site to a more customer-friendly and dynamic HTML5 web site over time.

Astrology and the Love Bite

Planet Earth is the planet of emotions.

24/7 our planet is ruled by people's emotions (of anger, fear, lust, jealousy, sadness, happiness, resentment...).

People can be compared with electromagnetic pendulums.

When they are 'alone', at rest, without interference of another person (electromagnetic pendulum) or outer interference, they are quite centered, grounded and in balance.

However, when another being enters the electromagnetic field of another one, the pendulum starts to swing.

And so do the emotions...

Depending on how close you enter into another's electromagnetic field and how powerful the electromagnetic field (attraction or pull) is, the pendulum starts to swing, often fiercely.

Likewise, emotions may run high and even get out of hand by just being around someone who 'triggers' your electromagnetic field in a powerful way.

Unfortunately, this is not always a nice experience, though it remains an experience, irrespective of the good or bad label we give our experiences...

Because of our emotional focus and emotional responses to outer stimuli, the lack of understanding and insight (awareness), emotions most often lower our vibration overall.

No wonder that Love, which is another wavelength, frequency and higher vibration entirely, cannot reside where low vibrational emotions occur.

Hence, Planet Earth is not the planet of love, actually.

This is proven easily when you consider that Love never judges (which is just the reflection of an emotional response).

Indeed, where there is judgment, there is no Love.

The one annuls the other.

Almost 99% of humans do judge, point, blame, condemn, criticize, vent frustration, anger and a lot of other emotions towards others, the environment, the Universe, the planet... (often fed by 'unloving' religious texts that propagate Ordeals, Judgment Days etc.).

Clearly, 24/7 we are trapped in our emotions and seem not to be able to easily manage and, more importantly, master, them.

All our human (inter)actions and responses are based upon a wide variety of emotions and instinctive reactions controlled by the autonomic nervous system.

When two people are irresistibly attracted to each other, meet and even merge together 'in the (self-)delusive name of Love' but become emotionally entangled and drained, cannot exit a spiral of emotional turmoil and are the victim of emotional vampirism and spiderweb-like interactions, we talk about a 'Love Bite.'

This term was first introduced by Eve Lorgen to describe obsessive relationships and emotional dramas, after a couple is brought together by irresistible forces (attraction) and/or energies (from whatever origin or source).

The effects of the Love Bite can range from simple break-ups of platonic relationships, to destructive divorces, and from “puppy love” to sudden urges to marry a complete stranger.

In this article we present our preliminary research results pertaining to couples/lovers who
  1. were involved in an obsessive-compulsive manipulative romantic relationship (no abusive family bonds or relationships at the working floor that is)
  2. have publicly or openly confirmed and/or shared their 'love relationship' was emotionally draining or abusive
Indeed, not all tumultuous love bonds are based upon the Love Bite and that's why we do not include relationships where physical aggression only is expressed and experienced.

During our research it was not always easy to find reliable and accurate birth information of both partners.

Anyway, though we only have a rather small database of couples who match our criteria, we did find a very predominant astrological configuration in all the chart comparisons.

This astrological pattern contains Saturn, Neptune and Pluto of either partner in a close aspect (inclusive the minor aspects like the semi-sextile or semi-square) and thus these three bodies/planets build a synastrical pattern or configuration.

Actually, this does not really come as a surprise because Saturn is the tenacious hook, Pluto indicates intensity and emotional turmoil and Neptune is the draining energy-sucker.

Neptune and Pluto both rule (emotional) water signs and hence, they often act in a silent and unobtrusive but nevertheless extremely powerful and all-enveloping way.

Additionally, the Sun, Moon and/or Venus of a partner is involved in the picture as well.

Let's take a look at some examples to make this clear and show how this works:
  • Jasmine Waltz (born on August 22, 1982 in Las Vegas, USA, time unknown) and Lee Ryan (born on June 17, 1983 in Chatham, Kent/UK, time unknown).

    In his natal chart we find Neptune sextile the Saturn/Pluto conjunction.

    Possibly, his Moon is involved in this natal picture as well.

    In the chart comparison between both, her Neptune is conjunct his Neptune and her Pluto is conjunct his Pluto which is not unusual at all because they are both of the same generation.

    However, his Sun and North Node oppose her Neptune (and his Neptune) and trine his Saturn/Pluto conjunction.

    So, in other words, his Sun builds and completes the astrological picture, pattern or configuration that also involves Saturn, Neptune and Pluto.

    Additionally, his North Node of the Moon, her Neptune and Pluto are at the same numerical degree in a sign (at 24°).

    These three bodies/points together denote 'living together in an emotionally draining way.'

    Without a doubt, these two different astrological configurations in the chart comparison (synastry) indicate a 'Love Bite.'

  • Towie Ferne McCann (born on August 6, 1990, place and time unknown) and Charlie Sims (born on March 17, 1992 in Essex, UK, time unknown).

    In Towie Ferne's natal chart there is an exact Venus Saturn opposition at 20° Cancer-Capricorn.

    Her Venus opposes his Neptune and sextiles his Pluto.

    Here too, Venus, Saturn, Neptune and Pluto build a close synastrical aspect pattern, confirming the emotionally draining love union they had for a couple of years.

    Moreover, his Saturn opposes her Sun while her Sun squares her Pluto and is inconjunct her Neptune.

    This second synastrical pattern between the Sun, Saturn, Neptune and Pluto adds to and reinforces the 'Love Bite.'
In conclusion: whenever you find a Saturn, Neptune, Pluto configuration in the chart comparison aspecting the Sun, Moon or Venus of one of the partners, just run for your life and try not to meet your target at all.

As soon as you meet or encounter each other, the irresistible attraction may set in, resulting in the fulfillment of the tragical trap of the 'Love Bite.'

And in case you cannot avoid the meeting, don't kiss or touch each other at all, not to activate the trap any further... and try to stay as centered and grounded as possible.

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