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CosmiTec's Love Letter, Issue #060 -- One Way Love
November 21, 2009

In this Love Letter we will discuss the topic of one way love. In the chart comparison, you can see if love is balanced (coming from both ways) or if it's not reciprocal and is left unanswered. To avoid any pain and emotional turmoil due to unrequited or unanswered love, you better know beforehand if love comes from both ways or not.

Hope you're still doing well!
Luc De Jaeger

Work in progress (coming in one of our next issues):

  • love marriages
  • arranged marriages
  • love degrees
  • fertility and Moon phase returns - latest research
  • happily married women: astrological indications

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Table of Contents

Our regular features
  1. The Love Forecasts for the Month
  2. Love Quotes of the month
  3. What's new on our web site?

Our occasional features

  1. One Way Love

Love Forecasts for December 2009

Uranus stations and turns direct around December 1, marking a breakthrough. There is excitement involving a change or some innovation. Uranus causes a shift and will break with the past, never looking back again. The future reigns.

The station is accompanied by Venus entering Sagittarius around the same day. You will enjoy your freedom above all else and will wander where you want to. Enjoy a move, a trip or travel. Anyway, change the place.

Around December 5, Mercury enters Capricorn and is moving towards Pluto which it will reach around December 7. Mercury never feels too good in an earth sign and is now more interested in the material world of practicle things and goodies. Think about shopping ;-) Your thinking can become sorrowful and fearful too though.

Fun and excitement is on the way around December 7 if you are born around February 26, May 28, August 31 or November 29. Let this day surprise you in a joyful way.

Mercury at 3° Capricorn squares Saturn at 3° Libra around December 8 confirming loneliness and some practical work to be done.

If you are born around March 4, June 4, September 6 or December 5 you will enjoy staying home around December 12. Home beautification or being creative at home is on your agenda but expect December 13 to bring love's sorrow and loneliness -- again.

The Sun at 22° Sagittarius squares Uranus at 22° Pisces around December 14. Another event brings excitement and may mark a dramatic and sudden change or innovation.

Love at first sight is on the horizon around December 20 when Venus at 22° Sagittarius squares Uranus at 22° Pisces. However, because Mars turns retrograde around the same day at 19° Leo, it has difficulty in expressing itself. You may feel the energy going down and you may become more self-centered and focused on the own development. Expect lots of physical problems around the station (especially heart- and spine-related issues). Also, Mars is all about work and with this planet turning backwards, loss of work and/or unemployment may become a hot topic. You better take some days off.

Around December 21, Jupiter and Neptune conjunct at 24° Aquarius while the Sun enters Capricorn. This day is a transition day between two worlds, the world of reality and the world of dreams and imagination. You may feel lost though but know that it's also a spiritual day marking a new beginning one way or the other.

There's not too much pleasure and fun noticeable between Christmas Eve and the New Year, especially not if you are born between March 24-26, June 25-27, September 26-28 or December 25-27. Venus enters the earth sign Capricorn around December 25 and is more interested in material goods than in people (except older or more mature people who are favored and well-liked). Show your love in a tangible way. Wealth and success are important under this transit.

The Sun at 4° Capricorn squares Saturn at 4° Libra around December 26, limiting one's creative self-expression. You may feel bored or in a sad mood.

Around the same day, Mercury at 21° Capricorn stations and turns retrograde amplifying a dark and lonely mood. You may feel limited.

Venus conjoins Pluto at 3° Capricorn around December 28. Sometimes, love is fated and irresistible, but also extremely painful. This is how it turns out to be now because Venus is also about to square Saturn at 4° Capricorn the following day. Whenever we find Venus, Saturn and Pluto in the same configuration, expect extremely painful and tearful love's sorrow. There is separation from a beloved one that needs time, and lots of time, to heal. Love hurts.

Around December 31 there is a Lunar Eclipse at 10° Cancer, an important relationship and partnership degree. No doubt, the focus of the end of the year will be about relationships. Because the Eclipse is posited in Cancer, family matters and real estate gain more interest.

Love Quotes of the Month

A man loses his sense of direction after four drinks; a woman loses hers after four kisses
-- H. L. Mencken --

You can look into a person's eyes for just one moment and your entire life can change
-- Source Unknown --

Love is an ocean of emotions, entirely surrounded by expenses
-- Lord Dewar --

The trouble with some women is that they get all excited about nothing -- and then marry him
-- Cher --

My mom always said men are like linoleum floors. Lay 'em right and you can walk all over them for thirty years
-- Brett Butler --

A divorce is like an amputation, you survive, but there is less of you
-- Margaret Atwood --

The heart never keeps a secret from the head
-- Welsh proberb --

Where love is, there the eye wanders
-- Latin proverb --

What's New on Our Web Site?

This time, we updated:
  • our prevent miscarriages page with additional information following our own research results
  • different pages with minor changes like exchanging deactivated or broken external links
  • our web site with 2 new pages; one about the ruler of the 7th house , a revised and expanded version of the article that originally appeared in a previous Love Letter; and another one about Venus in the horoscope which is a copy of the article that was printed in our previous Love Letter and which will soon be part of a new section about the planets in love on our web site.

One Way Love

In doing a chart comparison between two people it's always best to focus on the standouts to find the essence of the relationship.

Many times, clients ask and wonder: is this love, is it just friendship or sympathy or is it lust...

Astrology can tell.

One of the most important factors in a chart comparison, among others, is the analysis of the planets and bodies that conjunct the angles (Ascendant, MC, Descendant and IC) in the natal chart of the other person.

This is one of the best indications of attraction between two people and this should never be neglected when you compare two charts for mutual attraction.

The analysis of the planets and bodies that conjunct the angles of the other person (orb 6° but the closer the orb the better) describes whom you are attracted to or vice versa. To a lesser extent, the other aspects (squares, and especially sextiles or trines) can be important too if they are exact. In this article we will only focus on the most important aspect of all: the conjunction.

The rule goes as follows: the person whose angles are conjunct a planet or body of the other person, is in love or feels highly attracted to that other person (which we often call "the planet person").

The more the conjunction is exact (0° 00'), the more powerful and irresistible love and attraction becomes. While an orb of 6° still works, we do prefer smaller orbs and much more prefer an orb of 3°. The reason is that a wider orb may be overruled by other exact aspects and/or midpoints. FYI: exact midpoints between two persons always overrule the aspects!

If you follow our Love Letters for some time, you may already know how much we pay attention to very very small orbs and exact aspects! This works and will keep you to the very basics and standouts too.

Example: when the MC of person A is conjunct Venus of person B, then person A is in love with person B. B will only be in love with person A (reciprocal love) if his/her angles too are conjunct a planet or body of person A.

So, if in the chart comparison you only find that planets of a person aspect an angle in the natal chart of the other person, than you do know that there is just one way love!

If in the chart comparison, we find planets of a person conjunct an angle of the other person AND a planet of the other person conjuncts an angle of the 1st person, than we know there is reciprocal or shared love.

The most important bodies to conjunct an angle of another person are the Moon and Venus (the Moon pointing to a comfort zone and the one you turn to and Venus denoting love), followed by any other planet or body (the Sun, Mercury, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune or Pluto). The Moon's Nodes are highly important too and can bring kind of a fated attraction.

However, do know that when there is one way love, the "planet person" may just feel sympathy for the "angle person" (and not love) and may (easily) quit the relationship for another person/lover.

Mind though that attraction as such has nothing to do with endurability. It's not because a planet of the other person conjuncts one of your angles and vice versa, that you will build a lasting love union. A planet conjunct an angle is just a very strong and powerful indication of attraction and when the Moon or Venus are involved, of love; nothing more, nothing less.

Also, the "angle person" is the most vulnerable one, because his/her feelings of love are triggered. This may result in lover's burnout, denoting that the "angle person" does EVERYTHING to satisfy the (needs of the) "planet person" and draining the own energy field. If love is not reciprocal, the "angle person" may hopelessly chase a fata morgana, fill a bottomless bottle. Though there may be sympathy from the planet person, consider that sympathy is NOT love and the feelings are not of the same kind, intensity and "frequency"!

This way, there is no balance between two people and love can become a very painful experience for the "angle person."

There is nothing more painful than love that is not returned, not reciprocal and it's best to advice the "angle person" to do everything possible to let the "planet person" go. There is no need to chase something one cannot obtain. There is no way to force fate because that's just going against the flow of life and higher energy fields we cannot change or overpower. We all must learn to go with the flow and not against it. It's senseless to burn ourselves out and make our own life a misery.

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