Your Ascendant Reveals If You're
In Sync With "The Other!"

Is He The Right Man For You?

In nature, everything has an order and is the result of previous actions, initiatives or events that are connected through a virtual string. It's the seed that sprouts and becomes something else.

It's what we often call the evolution of matter (and life).

This also reflects through the zodiac signs in astrology. The 12 zodiac signs can be seen the same way, in an evolutionary way, starting with the beginning, the ignition, the sparkle, represented by the zodiac sign Aries.

The other zodiac signs follow in a certain and fixed sequence, representing mundane evolution in 12 steps (the 12 zodiac signs), sprouting from the Aries sparkle.

After initiating Aries comes kind of some materialization through the fixed earth sign Taurus which is followed by mutable (and spreading) Gemini.

Then follow, in this order, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, Aquarius and, finally, Pisces of dissolving, release and letting go.

This mundane order of the 12 zodiac signs is very important and builds the basis of western astrology.

Aries is the initial and starting sign out of which all other signs evolve and sprout. In other words, Aries is our reference point.

Aries is the self-igniting force or drive. Opposite of it, we find Libra, the force that drives "the other(s)", the outer world and environment.

Libra is everything that is outside of our own Self and our own world. It's everything we can encounter and meet (human beings, animals, material things...).

The Aries-Libra axis is also called the axis of relationships, meetings and encounters because it represents the ME (Aries), the own world, against the YOU ("the other"), the social and outer world at large (Libra).

When following the natural (and archetypal) evolution through the 12 zodiac signs, some signs are more in sync with the primary urges, ignited or initiated by Aries.

Because Aries is a fire sign, the fire signs are quite in sync with Aries. They understand Aries, follow Aries or spread its principles.

Some signs though, do not grasp Aries, they don't cope well, don't understand or follow the principles of this sign. These signs are disjunct or inconjunct the primary urges reflected by Aries.

These inconjunct signs are the signs that are 30° (and 330°) and 150° (and 210°) aside from Aries, following the natural order of the zodiac signs.

This means that Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio and Pisces are "out of sync" with Aries because they are disjunct or inconjunct Aries.

These 4 zodiac signs are incompatible with Aries one way or the other. They are incompatible with the primary and archetypal urges reflected by Aries.

When we transpose these mundane, archetypal and natural principles to an individual horoscope, the Ascendant becomes our starting point, as if it has Aries quality.

Whenever the zodiac sign that is on the Ascendant understands the primary drives of archetypal and mundane Aries (like fire signs do), chances are you feel in sync with the environment, with the other(s), with your partner(s).

You can easily adapt to the other, to others, to the environment. There is some basic agreement.

Whenever one of the disjunct zodiac signs (Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio or Pisces) is on the Ascendant, you tend to be "out of sync" with the other(s), with the outer environment as if the other(s) don't understand you, as if you are living in another world, as if you are born at the wrong moment and/or the wrong place etc.

It's as if you seem not to find "the right" one, feel neglected and/or rejected easily.

You don't fit or match the environment, the outer world and meet people that seem not to be a (perfect) match. You seem to be far ahead of your time, or far behind...

Does this mean that you will never encounter any "perfect match?" No not at all!

However, with a disjunct zodiac sign on your Ascendant, you will have to understand that:

  1. you will ALWAYS have to sacrifice something dearly if you want to match with the other, any partner or your environment.

  2. a good match will not be easy to find at all and will take time, so, expect a lot of trial and error.

  3. the best match is not the one that you think it is or that YOU try to force.

Well then, how to find the best possible match?

The best way to live the inconjunct is to, well, live it... This means that:

  1. you should find a partner who, one way or the other, "does not fit" at first sight.

    Search for a partner with a huge age difference or someone of another social environment or culture, or someone who does not "fit" physically (very tall when you have a small stature, very slim when you're obese etc...) or ...

  2. you should learn to go for compatibility, not attraction.

  3. you should make a choice out of people who also have a disjunct or inconjunct sign on their Ascendant but so that it trines your sign.

    For example
    if your Ascendant is Taurus, search for someone who has Virgo on the Ascendant (Taurus and Virgo trine each other).

    If possible, don't go for someone who has the opposite sign on the Ascendant as this will clash and will reinforce the incompatibility, almost surely resulting in a break up (if confirmed by other configurations).

    For example
    if your Ascendant is Taurus, DON'T go for a Scorpio Ascendant.

    A good second choice is when the zodiac sign of the other's Ascendant is sextile your Ascendant.

    Keep in mind though that this is only a second choice!

    For example
    if your Ascendant is Taurus, go for someone who has Pisces on the Ascendant.

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